Post by ophelia belle on Aug 6, 2008 19:42:43 GMT -5
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[/size]Cause I'm comin' home,
I'm comin' home,
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hello, the name's, Ophelia Jane Belle
but people tend to call me, just Ophelia
I turned , twenty
on , January 19th
so that means I've been living , as a resident
when the days over i like me some , boys
[/color][/font][/size]I've seen a palace in London,
I've seen a castle in Wales,
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well, my hair is, blonde
and I love my eyes, they're, blue green
and my skin colors this really cool, fair
mainly because I'm , English, Swedish, and Norwegian
I measure up to , five foot nothing
no Seattle Sutton's for me ! the scale says , ninety two
but it's kind of cool that I have , strong bone structure
and my style blows yours away , Ophelia doesn’t have a style. For her entire childhood, up until she graduated from high school really, she wore what her mother told her to wear. And it was never anything cute or in style, it was always plain, feminine but beyond modest. Hemlines were never above her knees, and she never, ever wore pants or t-shirts. She spent most of her time in jumpers and button down shirts with peter pan collars. She wore Mary-Janes and socks, she was a fashion victim in every way, but she didn’t really mind, because she didn’t know anything different. Once she started at public school, she was surprised to see the way that most girl’s dressed, that they wore pants and shorts and cropped tops, and all these things she’d never seen before. She had no desire to dress that way. Now that she is sort of on her own, Ophelia has let up the restrictions a little bit, but she sticks to her modest upbringing. Nothing can reveal too much, everything is still feminine. She sticks to mostly skirts and dresses, things that are pretty simple. She likes solid colors, natural fabrics, things with more classic shapes. She doesn’t wear heels ever, but she’s moved away from the socks and Mary-Janes look. She wears mostly basic flats, nothing fancy, she avoids fancy clothes. She doesn’t do beads or sequins; she doesn’t own anything glamorous or sexy, nothing with plunging necklines. Her idea of underwear is white and cotton, she shudders to think about the things some people wear. But she tries not to judge people by their clothes, like she hopes people don’t judge her for hers. But she can’t really help it, she is kind of a judgmental person, it is a fault, she knows. But she just doesn’t understand the things that pass as clothing.
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Blonde. And yes, that is the color it is supposed to be, the color that nature intended her to have. It is a pretty pale shade of blonde, it gets lighter and darker depending on the season. She doesn’t fuss over it much, after all, it is just dead protein, and there is no reason for her to freak out about it. When she was really little she had peroxide blonde hair, it was feathery and wispy, it stuck out at most angles. Her hair was kept long, her mother only trimmed it a few times a year, she had those awful bangs that every girl seems to have had, though Ophelia had them for a while, and it was nearly always back in a tight braid, or if her mother was feeling creative, it was styled like Heidi’s. Nowadays, without her mother to care for her hair, Ophelia keeps it as low maintenance as she can. It is medium length, fine, and slightly waved before she brushes it. She doesn’t pull her hair back that often, more often than not, it is in some sort of disarray, slept on and messy, and when it gets too bad, she’ll run a comb through it or just pull it into a messy bun. Ophelia just can’t be bothered with keeping her hair perfect; she has other things to think about.
Her eyes are sort of blue, sort of green. They don’t change color depending on her mood, like some people say theirs do, and they don’t change depending on the clothes she is wearing either. It is just a matter of personal opinion, some people say blue, other green. And sometimes, depending on the lighting, they’ll look more one way or the other, but for the most part, Ophelia says blue-green, her driver’s license says blue, but her permit said green, and she is thinking about changing it back when she gets her license renewed. It isn’t that big a deal to her, she just sort of sees them as eyes. They aren’t windows into her soul, nor do they express her every feeling, in fact, her eyes are usually rather expressionless, kind of blank. Ophelia doesn’t smile with her eyes; she doesn’t do much with them other than look. She is lucky to have pretty long lashes, which are naturally dark for her fair hair, not that she cares anyway. It isn’t like she thinks a lot about her eyelashes. She has a slightly bad habit of blinking less than most people, which makes her gaze a little unnerving, people usually try to avoid keeping eye contact with her for long periods of time, it creeps them out.
Ophelia has always been fair. As a child she was burned every summer, always the red faced girl whose mother was running after her with sun block, but she refused to have it. She spent a good deal of her childhood outside; she was heavily freckled, to her mother’s chagrin. But by the time she started high school, she stopped staying outside for long, and her freckles had started to fade. Ophelia began to worry about what the sun would do to her skin. She didn’t want to be one of those leathery old women who sagged about at beaches, their skin the same color as a sofa or a handbag. She didn’t want the wrinkles either. So Ophelia’s new war against the sun began, every morning, like an obsession, because it was, she applied SPF 60 to her entire body, head to toe, every inch of her was coated, and then again at noon and again at six thirty, she refused to be exposed to the sun, and she lectured people about it, about the perils of the sun to their skin. About skin cancer, about everything bad that could happen to them from a minute unprotected in the sunlight. She didn’t make too many friends that way, but she did leave most people rather well informed. And at least when she’s old, she’ll have the skin of an infant. Of course it was considered a little vain by her father, but her mother convinced him it was a health precaution.
Her bone structure is something that Ophelia always thought looked a little strange. She would never be one of those positively gorgeous girls, the kind who looked good in everything, but Ophelia is fond of her face, she won’t deny it. She likes that they set her apart from most other people, she doesn’t look like her mother, whose dainty facial structure was the stuff of legend during her early college years, nor is it anything like her father’s. In fact, no one knows where exactly where she got her looks from. Her face is oval shaped, her chin slightly pointed, but hardly angular. She has slightly wide set eyes, of the perfectly normal size. She has high cheekbones, and a masculine nose. The one thing she’d change about herself if she could, even though she knows that God made her the way she is for a reason, she can’t help but sometimes wish she could change one thing, or maybe two. Her lips are bow shaped, a little full, and naturally pink. She has a few moles scattered across her milky skin, but they aren’t cancerous, she is pretty sure of that. Ophelia doesn’t often smile, but when she does, if she means it, she smiles broadly, openly, and she really does look happy. But like I said, that isn’t a common occurrence.
Short. She has always been tiny in every way. She was born tiny; her mother worried about her quite a lot, wondering if it was normal for a little girl to be quite that small. Doctors told her that her daughter would grow soon enough, but she didn’t. Louise Belle was five foot seven and John Belle stands at six foot, so no one was quite sure where Ophelia’s tiny stature came from. When she was growing up, people always thought she was years younger than she was, simply because she was beyond short. In her freshman year of high school, she stood at only four foot ten. Thankfully, she grew another two inches, reaching her maximum height of five foot. Wow. She doesn’t really mind being short, while it is hard to find people in a crowd, and she does have problems when someone sits in front of her at the movies, as she can’t see. Ophelia has been short forever, she can’t imagine being tall, she doesn’t think it would suit her. Being short lets her slip into the background more easily, it lets her go unnoticed. And if she ever got really tired of being short, she could just wear heels and get to be an average height, but she doesn’t like heels, so, well, short she’ll stay.
Ophelia was tiny in both height and weight from day one. Her mother worried about her, about the fact that her daughter resembled a starving baby in Africa, even though she was well fed. Her ribs stuck out, her knees were knobby, and her elbows were pretty sharp: she looked like she hadn’t eaten in weeks. So Louise tried to get her to eat more, she always gave her daughter seconds, commanding her to eat, but Ophelia wasn’t often hungry, even as a little girl, she just didn’t like eating that much. She got full quickly and complained when her mother made her eat more. She suffered from frequent stomach aches and vomiting spells because of it, but her mother refused to give up. Eventually, Ophelia reached ninety pounds and her mother began to relent, it was as heavy as her daughter was ever going to get it seemed. But what Louise Belle didn’t know, was that for several years, Ophelia had been working very hard to keep control over what she was going to eat and not eat. Everything got written down in a notebook, she agonized over it, she thought about it constantly. Of course, it didn’t happen overnight, her disordered eating stemmed from her obsessive tendencies, from her control issues, it was one of so few things that she could gain some control over, and she needed the control.
There is not a single person on the face of this earth who is perfect. There are some narcissists who like to pretend that they are flawless, but they are just deluding themselves. Ophelia is well aware of her flaws, and while she doesn’t think about them endlessly, complaining about how dreadful she looks, she hardly considers herself to be pretty, let alone perfect. After a childhood fall, Ophelia had to have extensive surgery, leaving her back heavily scarred, along with several other less severe scars along her ribs and on her left wrist. Ophelia isn’t very fond of her nose, she’ll admit that, but she knows she can’t change it, it isn’t like she’d ever get plastic surgery, that would be ridiculous. And then there is her childish body, maybe it isn’t a flaw, but it makes her look about twelve. She is five feet tall, and weighs about ninety two pounds, she hasn’t got a single curve on her body, she does have long legs for her tiny frame, but it isn’t very noticeable, considering the fact that despite her long legs, she is still only five feet tall. Of course, Ophelia doesn’t dwell on her imperfections, because she really does believe that she was made the way she was for a reason, God made her that way, and therefore she has accepted it, and tries to love herself, in an un-vain kind of way. But it doesn’t really work most of the time, she’s too self conscious sadly.
All in all Ophelia Belle is a unique looking girl, she is not a conventional beauty, nor does she want to be one. She isn’t sultry or sexy by any stretch of the imagination, but she is striking. She is blonde, but not ditzy, she has pretty eyes, but they are rather flat when you look into them, surprisingly flat really. She doesn’t express emotion through them, she thinks it is kind of silly, no one needs to know what she’s thinking unless she wants them to, but it isn’t like she could even begin to know how to convey feelings through her eyes. She is small in stature, something she has grown to like, despite the drawbacks of being small, it allows her to disappear easily, to slip away into the background, and no one usually notices, there isn’t anyone looking for her. She doesn’t care much about her appearance really, she was brought up to be modest, to only care about the way she looked for hygiene purposes, not to impress people, she doesn’t wear makeup ever, she doesn’t dress sexily, she doesn’t even own a single pair of heels. She is a fan of looking natural, and if that bothers other people, that is their problem, not hers.
but people say I look like , clemence poesy
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[/size]but I'd rather wake up beside you
and breathe that ol' familiar smell,
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[/i][/size][/color] because, “I am not very in touch with the world. I know that. I am not deluding myself into thinking that I am like everyone one else. And I don’t want to be like them. I like myself just the way I am, I really do. I understand that to some people it might seem weird, but I just don’t feel comfortable in most situations involving other people. I grew up with just my family really, and they are still the only people that I really feel safe with, and even though I live with my brother, he is different now, it isn’t the same. I’ve tried in the past to connect to the world, but it never seems to work out. I don’t know how to convey my feelings to other people; I don’t know the way to hold a conversation with someone. I worry that they will think I'm strange, that they will not like me. It is easier not to even bother, it is lonelier of course, but it is safer. And while I hate being lonely most of the time, I would choose loneliness over awkwardness any day. I guess I will have to accept that I will never really be a part of this world.”
I love, moonlight. trees. black coffee. listening to opera music. thinking. early mornings. sunscreen. musicals. silent films. riding in trains. brushing her teeth. counting things. keys. cold showers. doing the laundry. hard wood floors. watermelon. tea. vintage cars. old fashioned names. hats. weddings. board games. history books. cash registers. people watching. organization. zoos. grapes. being pale. laughing. being in good company. her brother. her mother. books of any kind. church and church functions. cooking. talking about interesting subjects. sewing. knitting. small children. any and every kind of charity work. analog watches and clocks. old chivalry. museums. riding her bicycle. going on walks. wandering aimlessly. school. knowing things. riding in cars. praying. the way she is. classical music. playing the piano. speaking french. citrus fruits. soup. reading anything. the internet. being religious. her small size. the idea of time. fairytales. zoos. spicy food. perfection. respect. homework. movies with happy endings. white walls. the color lavender. the smell of lemons. watching the news. doing something good. helping people who need it. pale colors. flat shoes. nature documentaries. old books. warm weather. misty rains. text books. woods. chemistry. hot chocolate. her short stature. vegetable juice. pretty things. fruit flavored lollipops. dreaming. calm rooms. running water. pretty things. folk songs. chapstick. lotion. thick socks. dresses. old westerns.
but I really despise, being alone. most people her age. idiots. sleazy men. romantic comedies. relationships. being lied to. being talked at. big cities. everyone she graduated with. forgiving and forgetting. open doors. environmentalists. leather sofas. scratchy sheets. small towels. high heels. nursing homes. fans. the sound of nylon on nylon. pointless drama. people who consider themselves grounded. toe socks. chocolate. the smell of sweat. apples. slippers. blinking lights. rap music. partying. sweater vests. booty shorts. short men. guys in skinny pants. fried chicken. sluts. side burns. facial hair. people who don’t feel the need to shower. skin tight anything. psycho bitches. bendy straws. sodas. being watched. hoop earings. taffy. popcorn. the sun, for the most part. growing older. the untraditional ideas about anything. portable telephones. feeling groggy. yoga. doing nothing. pizza. wine and champagne and alcohol in general. bomber jackets. wearing a watch. frizzy hair. remote controls. the color yellow. packing. things not being in their place. pda. one dollar bills. waiting for anything. getting lost. having to make her own descisions. pudding. low rise jeans. studio lighting. listening to other people sing. striped clothing. blunt cut bangs. suede. being late. people who ask too many questions. boring conversations. chairs without arm rests. feeling guilty. daylight savings time. crowds. smokers. druggies.
I personally think I'm pretty good at, Ophelia is an upstanding citizen, she is the kind of girl that parents want their children to meet and marry. Well that is what she seems like to the naked eye anyway. She volunteers at children’s hospitals, she works in soup kitchens, she goes to church and was homeschooled for most of her life. she is a smart girl, she is just the kind of person that any mother would be proud to welcome into the family. That being said, she is also more often than not the moral compass for those around her, and while they rarely follow her example, she is always there, waiting for the day that she makes a difference in someone’s life. Ophelia Belle really does think that she can help people, that she can fix their problems. But she ends up taking their burdens on as her own. She tries to be a good person, she avoids all sorts of things that most people her age couldn’t live without, she is a good girl, she really is. She is also pretty good about doing what she is told, that could be seen as either a plus or a minus, depending on how you look at it, but if you ask Ophelia to do something for you, she will do it.
though I should really work on , Ophelia is kind of afraid of other people. Pretty much everyone who is not in her family, and even then her parents and brother scar her from time to time. She doesn’t know how to act in normal social situations, she thinks about them and stresses about them constantly, it is all that she can think about. Because of this she tries to avoid people as best she can. She doesn’t go out, but because she works two jobs, both of which involve people, she is often found in the middle of a near breakdown, one that she seems to always hanging around her. Ophelia is distant, she doesn’t like to talk to people much, she is awkward, lacking in all social skills, she cares more about going to church than she does about most anything else. She is judgmental, though she would never admit it, she really is. She sees herself as a good example of how people should act, but she has found that she is pretty much the only person who acts that way, she is the only girl she’s ever met who is anything like her. And she doesn’t know if that is a good or bad thing. Ophelia tries, she really does, but oftentimes, she fails, and then just feels unbearable guilty.
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religious [/font] because, “I see nothing wrong with being considered religious. It is true, I was brought up in a religious family, one in which church played a big role in my life. I have always been a spiritual person and I plan on staying one. I don’t mind if other people aren’t, I could usually care less what beliefs one person or another has, but I must admit that I do get insulted when someone takes a swing at me, just because of my religion. If I do not judge you, you have no right to judge me. It is as simple as that in the long run, but people rarely think that way. My beliefs control most aspects of my life, I guess some people consider it to be stifling or controlling, but I don’t mind really, perhaps I am just used to it. But I like the stability that the church has given me, I like that I can feel comfortable with myself, it gives me a sense of peace. I try to follow most of the things I’ve learned from my religion pretty carefully, my parents put a good deal of effort into my religious education when I was younger, and it has stuck. Even here, I still go to church three times a week, no exceptions.”
obsessive [/font] because, “When I was younger, I started out with just a few rituals. They were nothing too big; they just sort of were ways for me to unwind, to feel better. I always felt better after them, but with time, they became a larger and larger part of my life. I hid them pretty well though; most people suspected nothing and those who did probably didn’t care enough to speak up. I have always gotten kind of obsessed about things, I won’t deny that. In high school I always strove to be the best in all of my classes, I worked harder than anyone I knew, because I needed the recognition, I wanted someone to acknowledge everything I’d worked for. And they did. Of course my classmates weren’t exactly thrilled by my perfection at school, and I was often the target of a bit of anger after a difficult test or when an assignment was due, and I was the only person who actually did it. I like things to be in their place, everything has a place, a specific role to play. Likewise I like the number four, things are always better when they are grouped in fours. In fact, when they aren’t grouped in fours, I get antsy, I can’t concentrate on anything else, it starts to take over.”
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“My name is Ophelia. I am not like most other girls my age.”
Her father had wanted her to be named Mary, after the mother of Jesus. He thought it would be a good reflection of everything he wanted his daughter to amount to in this world. Her mother, at the last minute changed the plans and named her Ophelia. But the reflection of the name Mary, stuck. Purity is something that most people lose after a while. They get bored with it, want to try out something new for a while, they usually don’t go back. But for Ophelia Belle, purity is something that she can hide behind. She is the epitome of a good girl, she doesn’t sleep around, and she has never slept around, and is never planning on it. But this obsession with keeping pure, keeping chaste has slowly begun to take over her life. When she was younger, her parents made sure that she understood the perils of ‘slut-dom’ and now, even at twenty, she can’t forget what they said. Those lessons were drilled into her head day after day and they became creed in their own right.
Ophelia is scared of men; she is scared of anything to do with them. And while she knows that one day she is going to get married, the idea scares her almost to the point of a breakdown.
Ophelia was homeschooled until high school. On the first day of her freshman year she was that girl, the one who was wearing clothes only a Mormon school teacher would think about donning, the one who knew the answer to every question, but when it came to interacting with people her own age, she failed miserably. She just couldn’t do it. From the first day of her life, her parents tried to block out the evils of the outside world, she and her brother couldn’t and didn’t watch the television, ever. They didn’t have a computer in their house; their parents didn’t read the newspaper. The Belle family lived in perfect seclusion from everything that they saw as bad. And in doing so, the world of Ophelia grew smaller and smaller until it contained only her four person family, church, and her school work. Her sheltered upbringing is something that she had yet to lose, not that she would want to even if she could; it is her security blanket, the thing that makes her feel comfortable. But it makes even the most ordinary of situations awkward. She doesn’t know things, slang, anything about relationships or men, and when she asks, people usually just laugh and think she’s kidding. But she isn’t, she honestly doesn’t know. It is the kind of innocence that could so easily be taken advantage of.
She had one friend as a child, her brother. She considered her parents friends, and then there were the kids she went to church with. Growing up, that was enough. It was all she needed. She has told herself, time and time again that all she needs is her family, they are the most important people in her life, the only ones she needs. But even Ophelia knows that isn’t true. Maybe if she wasn’t so afraid of everyone, things would be different. Maybe then she wouldn’t feel quite so alone all of the time. But the way she was raised combined with her slightly stifling social phobias have caused her to try to separate herself from the world as much as possible, but even then, even after she has cut herself off from everyone her age, from the normal things that normal people do, part of her wants nothing more than to join them. Ophelia doesn’t understand herself in that way. She is ashamed of it, that her family isn’t enough, that she wants something that can so easily be associated with sin, but she can’t help it, it is human nature to want other people. And Ophelia is only human. Her loneliness is crippling, but usually she can delude herself into thinking she is okay. Usually.
Things have to be in pairs. It is simple, just like everything has a place, a use, a reason. And when people ignore those rules, Ophelia freaks out. Her control-freak tendencies started when she was rather young, her parents didn’t mind, she kept her room spotless, the bookshelves were always organized, everything in the entire house was perfectly lined up, straight and in descending height order. They were too oblivious to notice the other changes in their daughter, the ones the crept up slowly. She washes her hands four times before she can leave the bathroom; everything has to be touched with both hands, both feet, both sides of her body, four times. She picks things up and puts them back down again, four times, before she can use them. She can’t sleep unless she has checked her room, unless everything is perfect, the way it is supposed to be. For these reasons, going into the outside world can be something…horrifying. Everything is dirty, tainted in one way or another, no amount of hand washing or prayers could save her out there, she is much more comfortable in her own home, where people don’t yell at her for opening and closing doors four times before she can walk through them. She feels so much safer at home.
Ophelia takes on the actions of others as though they were her own. And therefore, their guilt for their wrongdoings becomes hers as well. But Ophelia’s strict upbringing makes every guilty feeling that much worse, and things the normal person would overlook, cause her to agonize for days. To a certain extent, Ophelia really thinks that she can fix people, make them better, more like the way her family raised her to be. And while this leads her to be slightly judgmental, it also causes her to try and fix quite a few people who don’t want to be fixed. It is one of the few forms of human contact that she can stand; only no one else seems to be able to stand it with her. She sees the actions of others and makes them her own. Their feelings, their thoughts get reflected and distorted in her mind. In this way Ophelia sometimes thinks that she understands other people, and always she learns the hard way that she really doesn’t understand a thing about them. She only thinks she does, and when she tries to connect, on this strange level, it doesn’t work out. So she has learned to wallow in their guilt alone, atoning for their sins, begging for their forgiveness.
She has always been slightly, breakable. Her mental state was never one of rock-like stability. Ophelia is the kind of girl who could quite easily be destroyed, corrupted and then broken, in a matter of minutes she really could be reduced to nothing more than a sobbing mental-case on the floor. So perhaps for that reason alone it is good she rarely interacts for more than a few minutes with the outside world, because they could so easily break her, without even trying. Her fragile mental state has always been that way, she was never exposed to anything as a child, her entire world had been created by her parents, the controlled everything she saw, everything she heard, everything she knew, and because of this, she was left rather delicate. She is not insane, she has just been so sheltered that really any amount of exposure to the other side of life is something that would just overwhelm her; for example, while some girls can easily just sleep around, that is the kind of thing that would cause Ophelia to breakdown. It is only a matter of time before she snaps though, before something happens or someone does something that causes the poor girl to break completely, and that is the kind of thing that just can’t be fixed.
Despite the fact that most people see her as this wholesome, good girl, and the fact that she is perhaps one of the few people on this earth who can really be considered pure, Ophelia Belle is hollow. There is nothing inside of her, no emotion, no feeling. She doesn’t understand normal human emotions, she knows what it is like to feel guilty, she knows what her parents called happiness, but it is all empty. Ophelia doesn’t know what love feels like, or how you really know if you are friends with someone. She has never felt desire or lust or anger or greed or envy, she is lacking all of them. Her parents wanted it to be that way; they wanted her to be in a separate world, one where the usual emotions, the ones that destroy the lives of other people on a daily basis, didn’t exist. And they succeeded. They made their daughter empty, emotionless, unable to connect with other people, unable to relate to the simplest of feelings. She lacks empathy; she doesn’t know how to feel for other people. In recent years she has seen some of these emotions in movies, on the streets, read about them in books, and she has tried to understand them, but she can’t, they just don’t make any sense to her.
“Honor thy father and mother.” It says it in the bible, so Ophelia does it. She has always been that dutiful daughter, the good one, the girl who does what she is told without question. In high school, it led to her having the reputation of quite the brown-noser, but she didn’t do it on purpose, she grew up being told that it was necessary, that when an elder told her to do something she did it. It was something that went without question, it was a fact and Ophelia accepted it. Because, hand in hand with her obedient manner, was her absolute belief of everything her parents told her. Had her parents told her to throw herself off of a bridge, she would have done it. Ophelia relies heavily on the direction of other people; she doesn’t know how to run her own life. And it is here that her parents gave Ophelia her greatest flaw, or the one that will most likely lead to her downfall, she can so easily be swayed, corrupted. All it would take was a little work, and just getting her to trust you. She would do anything that was asked of her, automatically.
Ophelia is gullible. She will believe anything you tell her. It isn’t even that she even thinks about what she has just been told and thinks, “Gee, even though that is positively impossible, I think I will believe it anyway.” No, she just was brought up to believe and accept everything her parents said, and it has spread to everyone else. That and the fact that she is so starved for human attentions that even one simple phrase becomes something sort of magical to her. She’d feel bad not believing it, lest she accuse someone, even just mentally, of lying. After all who is she to say what someone has and hasn’t done what they think and don’t think? But on the flip side, Ophelia is hardly what one would consider trusting. She doesn’t really trust other people’s motives, and while she is secretly thrilled when someone talks to her, she always has to question their motives. Maybe they are just mocking her, trying to make her feel comfortable before doing something horrible, giving her a false sense of security. Or course, this is a severe paranoia that she likes to pretend is normal. Then again, Ophelia is a big fan of ‘pretending it is normal’.
Perhaps it is simply because she never learned how to be a warm person, she never had people to be warm towards, but Ophelia is not exactly a nice person. She would never do anything to hurt anyone, but she isn’t sweet or nice. She is distant, she’s kind of cold. And whether it is a defense mechanism or not, it is a fact, Ophelia cannot be really nice to people, she doesn’t understand how to be. And what’s more, when people are too nice to her, it kind of scares her a little bit. She can’t think of a reason why they should be nice, why they should be trying so hard to make a good impression on her, it isn’t like she’d like them any less if they acted real, in fact she usually has a harder time being around people who are too nice, they really do scare her. It is abnormal, yes, to be afraid of nice people, but what could you expect from a girl like Ophelia? She was brought up in such a small world, one in which religion was everything; there were no people for her to be nice to. She already knew her family, and while she was always respectful and good, she wasn’t nice, she was silent. She didn’t have to impress them with her niceness, her obedience mattered much more. That being said, Ophelia is a good person, a misunderstood and naive one, but a good person all the same.
If for some strange reason, you decided that you’d like to be friends with Ophelia, you’d have a hard time doing it. And it isn’t just because she is kind of distant, and because she doesn’t trust people. It is because she makes herself rather elusive. Not purposely or anything, she didn’t wake up one day and decide to become mysterious, she doesn’t like that she’s been described as mysterious either, or that several people have tried to get to know her just because they want to see what makes Ophelia Belle tick. She just doesn’t like letting the whole world know everything about her, not that she could even begin to understand everything about herself, let alone explain it to anyone else. She finds it easier to be detached from the rest of the world, even if all she really wants is to become a part of it, she is far too scared of everything and everyone there that she couldn’t really ever do it. So she has contented herself with being just separate from everyone and everything else. Ophelia is well aware of the fact that she could probably never be like all those girls she sees, and while she’s accepted it; part of her laments it. And because of that, she just closed the world out, out of sight, out of mind, right?
Ophelia is childish, plain and simple. She has the mind of a small child quite a lot of the time, she thinks like a little girl, she is hardly mature and yet she isn’t particularly immature either. She is much more comfortable around children than she is around people her own age, it isn’t just because she doesn’t understand anything about people her age; it is because children are still good. Children have yet to do some of the horrible things that her age group participates in on a regular basis. Ophelia can talk with kids and they don’t judge her for being a little different, they don’t make fun of her for her little routines. Maybe it is also because she didn’t really have the conventional childhood, hers was hardly what one would consider a childhood at all in fact, that she has clung to the ideals of a little girl. Or maybe it is because she was never exposed to what she is supposed to do as an adult, she just doesn’t know. For all of those reasons, Ophelia tends to stick to children when she is craving human contact. And if you ever took the time to listen to the way she speaks, watched her mannerisms, you would realize that they are all, at their core, childish, in the saddest of ways.
Maybe the strangest thing about Ophelia, with all of her awkwardness and her being unbearably shy most of the time, is the way she carries herself. Something that, in truth is not usually considered a personality trait, but for Ophelia it really is. She is graceful, in a bizarre and unsettling kind of way. She is the kind of girl who should fall over her feet, and who should trip over everything and nothing at all. She isn’t supposed to carry herself like she is some kind of queen, isn’t that a little bit vain of her? She can’t help it; it is just the way she has always been. Perhaps that is why sometimes it takes people a few minutes before they realize that she is a little different from most twenty year old girls, not until she opens her mouth for the most part. But even then, she is eloquent, while her speech can be slightly pretentious or even childish at times, she has a strange sort of grace about her, it clings to her and she to it. Ophelia, to a certain extent feels like it is almost the only thing that connects her to the real world, something that is unexpected from her.
She is a smart girl. Her parents made sure of that, they made sure that she studied almost nonstop, that she took her schooling more seriously than any other girl her age should. When she was homeschooled, everything was done with a sort of perfection that was unnerving, when she was in high school she was at the top of every class. It wasn’t effortless intelligence, like how some people have. It was totally deliberate; she tried so hard, so unbelievably hard to be perfect at everything in everything that anything less than perfect was unacceptable, to both Ophelia and her parents. While she may be incredibly book smart, you know the type, who can pull the most random histories and details out of thin air, make connections to anything, has read any book you could possibly mention, she lacks street smarts in every way. Then again, that was probably already pretty obvious, the poor girl spent so much time and effort learning everything she could from books that any chance of her picking up some people skills in high school was lost, she failed, miserably when it came to that. So she hid behind her books, in a world that was concrete, where she understood everything, where everything was just exactly as it seemed.
We now come to the last bit of Ophelia Belle’s personality. She is cracking, slowly but surely, her little world is falling apart. The walls her parents constructed for her are crumbling, and no matter how hard she tries to put them back up again, to close her eyes and make everything all better, she can’t do it. She wants to escape, maybe just a little bit of her, but part of her, wishes more than anything else that she could just be normal, that she could leave everything about herself behind, start over again. But she couldn’t do it, she couldn’t let her parents down like that, she couldn’t destroy herself. She has deluded herself into believing that she will always be able to go on living the way she has been, that she can really change people, make the world better. But she can’t, and one day she will have to learn that, the hard way probably. So while she can, Ophelia is hiding behind her little walls, keeping herself wrapped up in her little world, but she is slipping, everything she’s believed for so long, everything she thinks and feels, it is all becoming less clear, nothing is as it was. Everything is changing.
PURE. OBSESSIVE. CONTROLLING. AFRAID. SHELTERED. CRACKING. INTELLIGENT. UNCOMFORTABLE. AWKWARD. MODEST. TIMID. NERVOUS. GULLIBLE. RELIGIOUS. READER. UNTRUSTING. LOYAL. BABY. TIRED. GRACEFUL. SAD. REVERENT. COLD. QUIET. GROUNDED. LONELY. GUILTY. WISTFUL. COMPOSED. FAKE. OPTIMISTIC. CONFUSED. HOPEFUL. FRAGILE. TIRED. HOLLOW. SUPERFICIAL. JUDGMENTAL. FORGETFUL. YEARNING. CHASTE. NONDESCRIPT. ELUSIVE. TRANQUIL. SUBMISSIVE. ETHICAL. WORRIED. PRETENDING. CONSIDERATE. DUTIFUL. PAINED. MOROSE. TASTEFUL. GOOD. SLIPPING.
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